I’m betting your TV doesn’t speak to you. I’m betting that video game doesn’t speak to you.
When you lose your way, when that fire inside you is weakened, you need to find what speaks to you. This in itself is a journey. Self discovery. What speaks to you?
When you are exhausted (mentally or physically), what can you do to rejuvenate yourself? I find this very easy to lie to yourself, try and not let this happen. This will be one of the hardest things to find the answer to. Doing so will probably require failure and experimentation on your part.
Use this as a invitation to a friend for lunch. This will make good conversation.
What can bring you down out of your ego? What can set you on fire?